    {"id":40506,"date":"2022-01-10T14:36:17","date_gmt":"2022-01-10T13:36:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shoelifer.com\/?p=40506"},"modified":"2022-01-10T17:44:58","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T16:44:58","slug":"sexualite-debats-inacheves-fantasmes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/serafina-hub.com\/new_en\/lifestyle\/humeur\/sexualite-debats-inacheves-fantasmes\/","title":{"rendered":"HUMEUR\u00a0: LA SEXUALIT\u00c9, LES D\u00c9BATS INACHEV\u00c9S, MES FANTASMES ET MOI"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>J\u2019ai beau jouer la Wonder Woman, il y a un sujet qui me fait peur\u00a0: parler de sexualit\u00e9. Car si l\u2019amour que je porte \u00e0 Bae est aussi haut que le Kilimandjaro, \u00e9voquer ma vie sous la couette est un exercice de funambule qui ne m\u2019apporte que des probl\u00e8mes avec mon entourage.\u00a0Mais comment faire pour d\u00e9bloquer le d\u00e9bat quand il s\u2019agit de sexe ? L\u2019humeur (\u00e9moustill\u00e9e) du mois, c\u2019est par ici.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u2019\u00e9tait un soir comme un autre. En mode \u201cne pas d\u00e9ranger\u201d activ\u00e9, moi et mon programme <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/shoelifer.com\/culture\/films-series\/netflix-co-nouvelles-series-attendues-automne\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Netflix<\/strong><\/span><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sur mon canap\u00e9. Je n\u2019attendais pas grand-chose de cette soir\u00e9e, quand je suis tomb\u00e9e sur le Top 10 des films les plus regard\u00e9s. L\u2019un d\u2019entre eux attire mon attention. Son titre ? <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plus on est de fous\u2026<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Une com\u00e9die espagnole <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un poquito caliente<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> relatant la vie d\u2019un club \u00e9changiste et de 5 couples bien comme il faut confront\u00e9s au pire\u00a0(?) des p\u00e9ch\u00e9s capitaux\u00a0: le d\u00e9sir. Je vous passe les d\u00e9tails, mais dans cet imbroglio de questions amoureuses et autres fantasmes inavou\u00e9s autour de la sexualit\u00e9, ce film a r\u00e9ussi \u00e0 me faire dire \u201cpourquoi pas\u00a0?\u201d. Comment rechercher de nouveaux frissons, assumer ses envies ou simplement sortir de sa routine apr\u00e8s 20 ans de mariage\u2026 Cela ne serait pas des questions que tout le monde devrait se poser\u00a0? Pas certain. Car en discutant de l\u2019affaire autour de moi, il n\u2019a pas fallu longtemps pour que l\u2019on me jette des regards effar\u00e9s. Hum. 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border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CYEzitTLx1Q\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\">A post shared by couturfu (@couturfu)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"><b>R\u00e8gle n\u00b01\u00a0: des questions tu ne poseras point<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ne vous m\u00e9prenez pas, question cul (oui, parfois il faut bien appeler un chat, un chat), il me suffit d\u2019avoir un petit coup dans le nez pour commencer \u00e0 parler sexualit\u00e9 et faire la liste de mes fantasmes pr\u00e9f\u00e9r\u00e9s. Comme Jude Law qui me plaque contre un mur, rendu fou (de d\u00e9sir) par mon charme irr\u00e9sistible. Ne niez pas, je sais que vous savez. Il y a aussi le traditionnel beau gosse du lyc\u00e9e qui revient me chercher sur son grand cheval blanc (oui je vais parfois un peu loin) ou le bad boy qui me refait revivre mes plus belles ann\u00e9es. Entre eux, mon c\u0153ur balance toujours. Mais le fait est que ce type de discussion n\u2019arrive exclusivement qu\u2019avec mes copines les plus proches, un brin d\u00e9jant\u00e9es mais surtout avec celles qui ont v\u00e9cu quelques ann\u00e9es \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9tranger. Bref, pas de quoi faire une enqu\u00eate autour de la sexualit\u00e9 aboutie, le d\u00e9bat est bien malgr\u00e9 moi, souvent cloisonn\u00e9\u2026 et plut\u00f4t arros\u00e9.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\"  data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/B7ooMQFl6GH\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:500px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\">\n<div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/B7ooMQFl6GH\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; width:100%;\" target=\"_blank\"> <\/p>\n<div style=\" display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/B7ooMQFl6GH\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\">A post shared by Gwyneth Paltrow (@gwynethpaltrow)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"><b>R\u00e8gle n\u00b02\u00a0: les gar\u00e7ons tu ne titilleras pas<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il faut dire que c\u00f4t\u00e9 mecs, ce n\u2019est pas mieux, on atteint souvent les sommets.\u00a0 Il y a les gros pervers avec yeux malsains d\u2019un c\u00f4t\u00e9 et de l\u2019autre, ceux qui se bloquent d\u00e8s qu\u2019on aborde le sujet. Parce que je ne sais pas vous, mais pour moi parler de sexualit\u00e9 avec la gente masculine rel\u00e8ve souvent de l\u2019acrobatie. Soit c\u2019est le salto arri\u00e8re quadrupl\u00e9 soit\u2026 le grand plong\u00e9 psychorigide dans les abysses de leur p\u00e9nis. Et finalement, au risque de voir Monsieur Y se fermer comme une hu\u00eetre, j\u2019ai appris qu\u2019il ne faut pas trop l\u2019ouvrir sur ce sujet. Parce que oui, une des plus grandes peurs de nos tendres moiti\u00e9s est d\u2019abord de nous voir raconter leurs petits secrets, en dessous de la ceinture. Les m\u00e2les alpha consid\u00e8rent cela comme une atteinte \u00e0 leur dignit\u00e9, un crime de haute trahison, une invasion de leur intimit\u00e9, farouchement gard\u00e9e. Et finissent toujours par dire : \u201cVous \u00eates pire que les mecs\u201d. Pas s\u00fbr. Car au jeu des non-dits, les femmes jouent bien plus souvent qu\u2019elles ne le souhaitent. Quand on sait que, selon un sondage r\u00e9alis\u00e9 en 2019, s<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">eules <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femmeactuelle.fr\/amour\/sexo\/orgasme-feminin-8-chiffres-insolites-a-connaitre-absolument-2089816\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>18% d&#8217;entre elles parviennent \u00e0 jouir lors de rapports sexuels avec p\u00e9n\u00e9tration<\/strong>, <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0\u00e7a donne \u00e0 r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir, non?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\"  data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CXA1HNKoWG9\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:500px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\">\n<div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CXA1HNKoWG9\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CXA1HNKoWG9\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\">A post shared by Cosmopolitan France (@cosmopolitan_fr)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"><b>R\u00e8gle n\u00b03\u00a0: sage tu resteras\u00a0\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qu\u2019on se le dise\u00a0: peur de se l\u00e2cher, discussions avort\u00e9es et routines st\u00e9riles au lit arrivent souvent \u00e0 prendre le pas sur notre spontan\u00e9it\u00e9, et donc sur notre sexualit\u00e9. Et \u00e0 finalement cr\u00e9er des situations g\u00eanantes sous la couette, plus difficiles \u00e0 d\u00e9passer qu\u2019un 100 m\u00e8tres haies \u00e0 cloche-pied. Le sujet qui arrive aujourd\u2019hui encore en t\u00eate de liste ? La <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">masturbation f\u00e9minine<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Oui l\u2019onanisme, ce plaisir solitaire (ou non d\u2019ailleurs) encore trop souvent consid\u00e9r\u00e9 comme \u00e9tant l\u2019apanage des hommes. Les chiffres sont pourtant r\u00e9v\u00e9lateurs. En 2021 en France, elles \u00e9taient pr\u00e8s de <\/span><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.fr\/entry\/la-masturbation-feminine-est-de-plus-en-plus-pratiquee-depuis-la-crise-sanitaire_fr_6141b068e4b0628d0962a518\">78 % \u00e0 avoir admis s\u2019\u00eatre laiss\u00e9 tenter, rapporte un sondage Ifop relay\u00e9 par le <i>Huffington Post<\/i> fran\u00e7ais<\/a><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Mieux encore, \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pr\u00e8s d\u2019une Fran\u00e7aise sur deux (46%) admet avoir d\u00e9j\u00e0 utilis\u00e9 un godemich\u00e9<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d, et \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">50% des Fran\u00e7aises visionnent ou ont visionn\u00e9 en 2021 des vid\u00e9os porno, contre 43% en 2016<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d, r\u00e9v\u00e8le l\u2019article. Damn\u00a0! Et si l\u2019\u00e9pid\u00e9mie de Covid-19 y est peut-\u00eatre pour quelque chose, il n\u2019y a pas de raison pour que cela n\u2019arrive pas chez nous, non\u00a0?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\"  data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CSzxBAaFgZO\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:500px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\">\n<div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CSzxBAaFgZO\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; width:100%;\" target=\"_blank\"> <\/p>\n<div style=\" display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; 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Concernant la masturbation f\u00e9minine par exemple, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">moins d\u2019une femme sur dix en a d\u00e9j\u00e0 discut\u00e9 avec ses fr\u00e9quentations (6%) et \u00e0 peine deux sur dix \u00e0 des amies proches (20%).<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Bref, la question qui f\u00e2che sera toujours de savoir comment aborder les choses&#8230; Car oui, excusez-moi, c\u2019est normal apr\u00e8s dix ann\u00e9es de vie \u00e0 deux, des enfants et pas mal de stress au boulot, de devoir se r\u00e9inventer sous la couette avec sa moiti\u00e9. C\u2019est finalement un art auquel il nous faudra tous s\u2019essayer. Oui, m\u00eame Carrie Bradshaw dans la derni\u00e8re saison de <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sex and the City<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Du coup, voil\u00e0 le secret. Comme tout dans la vie, pour que les chosent changent, il suffit parfois simplement de sauter le pas.\u00a0 En faisant preuve de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">subtilit\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou en mettant les pieds dans le plat, c\u2019est au choix. Car c\u2019est peut \u00eatre \u00e7a apr\u00e8s tout, partir \u00e0 la d\u00e9couverte de sa sexualit\u00e9. Donner une impulsion, lancer le sujet. Et \u00e9teindre Netflix tant qu\u2019on y est. Parce que communiquer, c\u2019est encore la meilleure recette pour faire \u00e9voluer son couple\u2026 et la libido qui va avec. Quitte \u00e0 \u00eatre dans le m\u00eame bateau, autant ramer ensemble, vous ne croyez pas\u00a0? Il para\u00eet qu\u2019ainsi, \u00e7a file plus droit et \u00e7a va plus vite. Un peu comme la fin de mon film, qui conclut\u00a0: \u201cMieux vaut vivre avec des remords qu\u2019avec des regrets\u201d. \u00c0 m\u00e9diter. Sur ce, je retourne \u00e0 mes petites affaires. Et ne vous faites pas d\u2019id\u00e9es, je vous vois venir\u2026 Vous avez l\u2019esprit mal tourn\u00e9\u00a0!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sarah Kroche.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Photo (c) Claire Rothsein.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>J\u2019ai beau jouer la Wonder Woman, il y a un sujet qui me fait peur : parler de sexualit\u00e9. Car si l\u2019amour que je porte \u00e0 Bae est aussi haut que le Kilimandjaro, \u00e9voquer ma vie sous la couette est un exercice de funambule qui ne m\u2019apporte que des probl\u00e8mes avec mon entourage. Mais comment faire pour d\u00e9bloquer le d\u00e9bat quand il s\u2019agit de sexe ? 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